Change is inevitable. It will occur at some point in our lives whether we like it or not. In small instances it occurs everyday. People who we considered friends betray us, loved ones leave, new friends are made, relationships created and destroyed daily, those we trust give us reason to lose the trust, all change. Humans hate change, they dread it, I dread it. No one who is in a comfortable position in life wants a change, but sometimes it is unavoidable. What is the purpose? Why do "good things" change to "bad" so often and so quickly?
Too often we as humans don't stop and think for a moment "what if this is not best for me?" It is a scary thought when we are comfortable but it is one that should cross our minds. Is that friendship beneficial to me in the long run? Is this relationship really going to last? Do I really love this person? and if you can honestly, and I mean without a shadow of doubt HONESTLY, think so, by all means continue and live life to its fullest. But there is always that chance when you wake up in the morning and everything is different, and at that point, what do you do? Nothing is meant to last forever, and as sad as that sounds, it is true nonetheless.
Its a scary proposition, what are your plans for the worst case scenario? Its lurking out there. Think about it.
“Things change and friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.” -Stephen Chbosky
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